Having just returned from the RT Booklovers Convention, I have spent the last few weeks musing over the differences and similarities between romance and fantasy and science fiction.
You see, here is my confession. When I was a teenager, probably about sixteen, I purchased my first romance novel to read. Now, I was a huge speculative fiction addict, and I grew up reading my Dad’s Norton, McCaffrey, and Cherryh. Still, I wanted to try something different, and the allure was there. So I purchased my first foray into romance with the secretiveness most people reserve for their first adult literature.
I remember the cover, but not the title. It was blazoned red, with a swooning woman in a half-naked man’s arms. Her bodice was half-off so it certainly lived up to the ideal of a bodice ripper. As a teenager it was heady stuff. The lure of the adult world.
I even ventured into Barbara Cartland territory, since I loved to read about history.
For about six months I read all the romance I could get my hands on…and then I was done. I discovered all were the same, or so dreadfully similar that I got bored. Just as quickly as I had taken up romance, I gave up on it.
Did I mention this was nearly thirty years ago? Ouch…
Through all that time I held onto the belief that romance was all the same. I admit that even as a female, I kept away from it because of that impression I had formed as a teenager. For some reason in my head, romance was stationary even as other genres moved, changed, developed.
I suspect I had this inherent bias towards the genre that kept me from going back to test the waters again. Until it was that I began to make friends with other authors, others outside my genre.
Then Dawn’s Early Light won the RT Reviewers Choice Award, and I was invited to go to Dallas to accept the award. My bias loomed up again. A romance award? How did we win that? Our books aren’t romance.
I was about to get a massive lesson, and romance was about to beat me about the head with my own ignorance.
What I found out when I got to the convention was a group of authors and readers who were incredibly welcoming. You see, in both speculative fiction and literary fiction crowd previous to this, I have run up against biases, even from people who were relative strangers to me. Hard science fiction readers who roll their eyes at ‘woman’s science fiction’. People who think steampunk is a load of old tosh. People who can’t handle fantasy that deals with ‘issues’, or is just ‘escapist trash’. Yep, there is a lot of judgement to go around.
Also it was also a very female crowd. Women were at least 95% of the attendees. Again, different from the sci fi and fantasy conventions.
But the thing that really struck me was how welcoming they were. The readers I met were interested in what I wrote, even though it would never be marketed as romance. I have always had romantic elements in my books—I think relationships and romance are part of most people’s lives—but these readers didn’t run my books past any sort of test, they didn’t turn up their noses at me.
And then I sat next to Patricia Briggs at an RT panel. Suddenly it was like a light switch went off. If they could accept  her books, which would be called urban fantasy generally, then…hey…maybe there was a place for me at that table.
Because romance is a big table with plenty of room around it. Erotica. Armish. Paranormal. Science fiction. Contemporary. Historical. There is a place for every kind of book.
Ever since the Author’s Guild back in New Zealand turned up their noses at me writing genre, I guess part of me has been anticipating rejection where ever I went. So this broad acceptance is actually heady stuff.
I am aware that there is drama in romance too; authors and/or readers doing foolish things spans every genre. However there is a general air of acceptance I can only admire.
So I am ready to read romance again. After thirty years I am sure things have changed. My question to you as presumably genre readers, are you ready to try along with me?
Once The Ghost Rebellion is out, I am going to get back in and reach outside the genre I’ve kept myself in for so long. I’ll probably make a hashtag and blog about it.
Shall we explore that grey space in between together?